"50 Remarkable Instances of Bizarre Statements Made by Men That Left Lasting Impressions on Women"
The old world, beacon of human rights, doesn't escape the stench of sexism, even as it's sung like a siren song. For example, European women are 3.6 times more likely to fend off unwanted sexual attention compared to the lads[5]. Just causally strolling through life, TikTok user @tanyapidgor asked other ladies to share some of the most, well, loose screws they've encountered in public, and she got tens of thousands of replies. Half were so off-kilter, bizarre, and offensive that they felt like skits from a comedian's act - though there were a few that were oddly heartwarming or wholesome.
I once had a customer tell me I was selfish for having such long hair and he insisted I should cut it for the sake of the needy[2]. He wouldn't let it drop, so I told him I'd donate mine if he'd do the same (spoiler: he was bald).
Jess 🌸 , splitov27 Report
Dont mind him, he was just jealous.
In a coffee shop, an older gentleman stopped dead in his tracks, came up to me, and asked if my mother was [maiden name] because I have her smile[2].
Shanae Carpenter Report
I wish BP wouldn't keep changing the titles. Currently, the title is "The Most Unhinged Things Men Have Said About Their Looks In Public". This story about a former teacher recognizing a smile isn't unhinged at all. It's sweet[2].
Shanae Carpenter Report
Surveys show that an alarming 81 percent of women have experienced some form of sexual harassment like whistles, lewd comments, or being catcalled[4]. The exact numbers can vary from study to study, but the point is clear: women face a larger risk of unwanted sexual attention in public.
One lady shared that a man chased her a mile to tell her he liked her smile[2]. Another woman was stopped by a British man, bumped into her, and called her evening primrose. He said he was reliving the day he met the love of his life[2].
It's not just in person where women face lewd remarks. LinkedIn users reported that they had received romantic advances or inappropriate messages on the platform at least once, with some receiving them on a daily or near-daily basis[3].
Some men are still out here thinking they can get away with nonsense. But here's a pro tip: if you don't know someone, still take a second to think before spewing out your awkward congratulations. Remember, it's more satisfying to offer a sincere compliment than to embarrass yourself or another person unintentionally. That's how you steer clear of awkward exchanges and keep your dignity intact.
A woman in a wheelchair shared that men often tell her she's "too pretty" to be in a wheelchair[2].
Another man couldn't keep his thoughts to himself, going so far as to ask a pregnant woman at work if she was considering abortion[2].
Reactions to these comments range from being speechless and feeling angry to taking matters into their own hands (one boss even had a problematic customer who was kicked out after making an inappropriate comment)[2]. In some instances, women have even turned the tables on their harassers, as one woman responded to a catcaller by saying, "Sure, I'll go back inside to get you seconds."
Women everywhere, let's continue to speak up against unwanted attention and work towards creating safer public spaces for all.
References:1. Gender and sexual harassment in Europe: findings from the European Union gender-based violence survey - EU-GSBPV2. 93 Examples Of Double Standards Women And Men Face In Regards To Beauty While Aging3. 30 Unsettling Examples of Men Venting About Women's Creepy Behaviors4. Men Say the Darndest Things: 50 Times Male Coworkers Baffled Women With Their Creepiness and Stupidity5. How to give a compliment: Why it makes you feel good and how to do it
- The buoy of mental health and wellness should not overlook the importance of addressing and combating sexism, as it continues to permeate various aspects of life, including science, lifestyle, and general news.
- In the realm of entertainment and humor, it's essential to acknowledge and address the insidious nature of sexual harassment, which is prevalent in public spaces and even on platforms like social media.
- The justice system, under the category of crime and justice, plays a crucial role in upholding the rights of individuals, ensuring that inappropriate and offensive behavior is met with appropriate consequences, thus promoting a safer environment for all, particularly women.
